THE PROBLEM WITH DATING "GURUS"
The problem is simple. They only tell you how to meet women and attract women. They don't tell you how to RELATE and KEEP them. WORSE yet, they don't even tell you the correct principles of MEETING women.....they tell you what worked for them.....and they tell you to do things that don't quite feel right for you......
BECAUSE MOST GURUS HAVE NO REAL EXPERIENCE WITH MEETING A BROAD RANGE OF WOMEN AND SECURING A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM.
MOST GURUS HAVE SIMPLY DISCOVERED ONE TECHNIQUE THAT WORKS (ON ONE TYPE OF WOMEN), THEN DO IT ALL THE TIME ON EVERYONE, AND TELL YOU -- IT IS A NUMBERS GAME!
NO -- IT IS NOT A NUMBERS GAME!
IF YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING SITUATIONALLY,
YOU CAN CLOSE 80-90% OF THE WOMEN
THAT YOU ARE INTERESTED IN.
WHEN I REVIEWED WEBSITES BEFORE PREPARING THIS ONE, I COULDN'T BELIEVE THAT I ACTUALLY SAW GURUS WRITING ADVICE:
--GURUS WHO HAD NO ACTUAL EXPERIENCE. THEIR ADVICE WAS BASED ON INTERVIEWS!
--GURUS WHO WERE WOMEN (WHO DON'T EVEN UNDERSTAND THEMSELVES) GIVING ADVICE TO MEN.
--AND DOZENS OF GURUS WHO HAVE TECHNIQUES THAT CAN CLOSE WOMEN (BUT WOMEN THAT I WOULDN'T TOUCH WITH A 10 FOOT POLE. DO YOU WANT THE CREAM OF THE CROP LIKE ME? OR WHATEVER YOU CAN GET BY CLOSING 10-20% OF WHATEVER USING A NUMBERS GAME.)
NUMBERS GAMES AREN'T "TECHNIQUES",
THEY ARE CRUDE STRATEGIES.
I KNOW GUYS WHO CAN GO INTO A BAR AND ASK EVERY WOMEN THEY MEET VERY CRUDELY "DO YOU WANT TO ####" AND GUESS WHAT, DEPENDING ON THE GUY, IF THEY ASK 100 WOMEN OR SO THEY'LL GET ONE TO RESPOND.
THE PROBLEM WITH NUMBERS GAMES IS THAT THEY MAKE YOU DO THINGS THAT FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE, THAT AREN'T QUITE YOU...AND THEY DON'T WORK ON THE WOMEN YOU REALLY WANT!!!!
The problem is, there are different TYPES of men. And different types of men like different types of women. Different types of women require different strategies for each type. And I'm here to tell you all of them.
IF YOU WANT GOOD ADVICE YOU SHOULD SEEK OUT SOMEONE
WHO HAS ACTUALLY DONE IT AND LEARN FROM THEM.
I HAVE DONE IT ALL!
--I HAVE MET AND MAINTAINED RELATIONSHIPS WITH A BROAD VARIETY OF DIFFERENT WOMEN.
--I HAVE SUCCESSFULLY MET WOMEN (AND DEVELOPED RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEM)
NATURALLY --ON THE STREET, IN THE STORE, ETC.
THROUGH NEWSPAPER and VOICE MAIL ADVERTISING
-- I HAVE GONE ON OVER 700 DATES WITH DIFFERENT WOMEN IN ONE YEAR
--I HAVE HAD A MARRIAGE LAST 12 YEARS WITHOUT EVER CHEATING ON MY WIFE
--I HAVE HAD A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRLFRIEND FOR 7 YEARS WITHOUT EVER CHEATING ON HER.
--I HAVE HAD MULTIPLE LONG TERM SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS WITH AS MANY AS 10 WOMEN AT ONCE WITHOUT HIDING MY INTENTIONS OR LYING TO ANY ONE OF THEM.
--I HAVE GONE TO BARS AND CLUBS AND GOTTEN LAID BY ONE-NIGHTERS 5 TIMES A WEEK FOR MONTHS ON END.
--I HAVE GOTTEN LAID BY A DIFFERENT WOMEN EVERY NIGHT OF THE WEEK FOR MONTHS ON END.
--I HAVE MANIPULATED THE MANIPULATORS (YOU KNOW, P**** TEASERS) WHO WERE OUT TO USE ME. (YES, OF COURSE, I GOT SEX, BUT IT WASN'T VERY GOOD)
--I HAVE GONE TO STRIP CLUBS AND HAD THE STRIPPERS ASK ME OUT! THEN TAKE ME HOME AND HAVE SEX WITH ME.
--I HAVE HAD SEVERAL WOMEN ASK ME TO FATHER THEIR CHILD--NO STRINGS ATTACHED
--I COULD GO ON AND ON.
WHO AM I? Let me introduce myself. I am Mr. L. Rx (Why Mr. L. Rx? Well, I'd rather remain anonymous. I'm not into being famous. I don't have to prove anything to anyone, I'd just like to help a few guys out by giving them CORRECT information on women.)
WHAT MAKES ME QUALIFIED
TO BE AN EXPERT ON DATING AND RELATING?
Well, I am 54 years old, and though at 20 I couldn't even get a girlfriend, I currently have 6 long term (2-5 years) sexual/romantic relationships going with younger women (Ages 22, 25, 26, 27, 30, and 40.) NO I AM NOT A PLAYER. I was married 12 years and never cheated on my wife. If I am in a committed relationship, I don't cheat. BUT in-between committed relationships, I am looking. And I feel I have the right to date and have sex with as many woman as I want, as long as I am HONEST with them about it and practice safe sex.
IT TOOK ME 50 YEARS but I finally got to understand and become very successful with women.
MY STATISTICS of SUCCESS
Teenager 0 dates. Virgin until 19. Lost my virginity to a legal whore in Nevada. Although considered "hot" by most women, once they met me, I blew them away. First girlfriend by 20. I was married by 22, but had a miserable marriage and was divorced by 25. BUT....
BY 25 1/2 I had learned how to get laid 5 times a week in bars and clubs. Things I learned from these experiences culminated in me becoming a very good lover, and getting married again at 31 to a 19 year old woman.... But I was divorced again by 42. BUT...
BY 43 1/2 I had learned how to get 2 dates a day with personal ads. I had over 700 dates in my first year alone. This culminated in me meeting the best sexual partner I had ever had (and I had had quite a few) which resulted in a 7 year relationship, but by 50 this was over too (not because of the sex- it was hot even after we broke up) but...
BY 52 I had learned how to get and maintain long term multiple sexual relationship without lying to anyone. (I usually have about 6-10 younger (19-40) sexual partners that I see once a week or once every other week, or once a month, depending on MY interest level. Most of these relationship I had maintained for years. Most of the relationships I had developed between 50 and 52 have been maintained for 5 years, others 2 or 3 or 4 years.)
NOW at 54, I feel complete in my knowledge, I can meet women anywhere: in a club, on the Internet, through personal ads, through friends, and on the street. If I want, I can close about 90% of the qualified women I meet for long term sexual relationships or marriage. Once married, I am a good honest man that knows how to treat a woman, emotionally and sexually. I am not currently married (though I have had about 4 proposals and 4 girls who would marry me in an instant if I asked), because I won't settle for anything less than a beautiful, classy, intelligent and emotionally mature woman, that has a great family and friends, knows what she wants to do with her life exactly, and has many, many things in common with me. (Unfortunately as of this writing, I haven't found her yet.)
In other words, I have the beginning game, middle game and the end game all down.
AND though there is a lot of good information and good guys (like David DeAngelo, David M., Mystery, etc.) teaching guys stuff in seminars, books, private coaching, etc. They are all missing little pieces of the truth. Their techniques work, but only with a certain kind of woman. "Cocky and Funny", for example, doesn't generally work on the classy, intelligent women, that I like. And sure Mystery's techniques work on bar and club women (I know his techniques work, because I did almost exactly the same thing in 1978 when I got laid in clubs 5 times a week by "one night stands".) but bar and club woman again aren't the classy intelligent woman that I LIKE... .And perhaps you are like me...
MORE OF MY STORY
When I was a young man. I was simply hot. I never chased women. Women chased me. I had experiences that guys typically didn't have. Girls stopped their cars and tried to pick me up, girls whistled at me. Younger girls who knew me in school, upon turning 18 usually, would confess that they had a crush on me all their lives. Girls would approach me on the beach and tell me I was the hottest guy on the beach...one girl even stopped the elevator mid-floor and told me I wasn't getting off until I kissed her....
BUT-- don't go anywhere, just because I was HOT doesn't mean I got women. I just got approached all the time. As SOON AS I OPENED MY MOUTH (or shortly thereafter) I LOST THEM. THEY WOULD TELL ME I WAS NUTS, AND RUN AWAY. I didn't quite understand it then, but I DO NOW.
SOMEHOW, I managed to get married by 22, to my first girlfriend (She was NUTS too), had a terrible marriage, and got divorced.
When I was 25 (1978) after a failed marriage, I decided to START LEARNING, I hung out in bars 24/7 until I figured out "how to get laid". It took me 3 months. After3 months I could go out 7 days a week and get laid 5 of those days by "one nighters" that I liked.
What I learned at this time was that, although I was good looking, that didn't matter. I became successful by learning what to say to women.
I eventually got married again to a women who was 19 when I was 31. We were married 12 years and had 2 children. When we eventually broke up, I was 42.
Now when I became single again at 42, I was not as good looking as the teenage to 30 year old version of myself. I was still trim and in good physical shape and didn't quite look my true age, but I was balding and knew I couldn't compete with a hot 25 year old on sheer looks.
What I was soon to learn, however, is that it doesn't hurt to have "good looks" but it is not really important. All it gets you is attention. There are other ways to get a woman's attention. MONEY, good conversation, personality and technique are some that come to mind.
What I was soon to learn was that an Older, Balder version of me could get more young women...and keep them... than the Younger, Hotter Version of me ever could.
I DECIDED TO LEARN SOME MORE. I started exploring personal ads, which were big at the time. Within about 3 months again I was routinely going on 2 dates a day (YES A DAY) for about a little over a year. That's right I had over 700 dates in one year alone. Believe me, it was a part time job. After about 13 months of this, I settled down with one women I met and she became my girlfriend -- after about 3 months of dating. I lost interest in all other women and in meeting new women. I had a monogamous relationship with her and was faithful for 7 years to her.
WHEN I BROKE UP WITH HER, (at age 50) I decided to learn the rest of the things I still didn't know to really master the area. I explored personal ads some more, Internet dating, and meeting people on the streets and through friends.
Within about 3 months again, I learned how to have multiple sexual partners/friends (notice I don't use the term Girlfriend) without LYING. I have had as many as 10 sexual partners/friends at one time (but I found this a little exhausting) and prefer to have about 6 sexual partners friends and see about 3 or 4 of them a week, using my other nights to continue my search for the ideal /marriage partner.
Though I haven't found my ideal marriage partner yet, it is because I have become very picky, because I won't settle for anything less than a beautiful, classy, intelligent and emotionally mature woman, that has a great family and friends, knows what she wants to do with her life exactly, and has many, many things in common with me.
I must say I am as content as a single guy could be. And I am more successful with women now at 54 then I have ever been. (And it is with the same age group that I have always been interested in 18-35) My multiple partners kind of combine into one ideal women, but of course.... in the final analysis... I really am a monogamous man and would rather be married....
But TODAY I am here to help you.
In my BOOK: Dating to Relating - you will learn how to:
- MEET any type of women in any TYPE of situation
- Use PICK UP lines and PICK UP technique laid out for different situations
- Develop your own PICK UP lines and PICK UP techniques from the principles you learn
- Exact techniques for approaching different types of women and establishing a relationship (Click here for an example of how to approach different types of women in the same situation right now.)
- Understand how different types of women think and how to approach each type.
- Approach a women without feeling uncomfortable
- What a woman's feet have to do with it?That's right-- how feet can be a guide to SANITY in meeting and relating to women.
- Learning how to understand and use subtle and gradient communications that women use.
- Get women to approach you, and make the moves on you first.
- Prospect and qualify - that's right guys?we are salesmen!
- Reject girls - let them down easy. Get use to it. You'll have so many girls, you'll have to let a few of them go!
- Define what your ideal woman is so you know what you are prospecting for.
- Exact strategies for meeting women in different settings -- bars, street, stores, etc.
- Establish "Future" with a woman. Relationships start here.
- Establish "Future" with a women walking down the street, in the mall, etc.
- Exact techniques for what to do on the first date so you don't blow it.
- Exact techniques for what to do on the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, etc. dates so you don't blow it.
- And once you make it that far I'll even tell you how to develop your budding relationship. (Click here for information on relationships)
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